by karenuk » Thu Oct 15, 2009 10:19 am
In general, I think festivals are a good thing as long as they are not taken too seriously and children don't feel pressured to do things they are not completely comfortable doing. Let's face it, if a child has got the talent and drive to make a career in dancing, it is not going to make one iota of difference whether they won a medal at the age of 12, and the child that wins an age 8 aggregate is not going to be guaranteed a glittering lifelong stage career - you would think it is all of earth shattering importance to listen to some of the parents!
We did have a bad experience with an adjudicator at a local festival though. My daughter was 7, and was just not on the ball in her tap solo that day - it was only her second time of dancing a tap solo and her timing was out. In the adjudication, she was told - in front of the other competitors and the audience that she 'does not have the technical or musical capability for dance' - despite being the best tapper in her class - it was just an off day for goodness sake... She was then made to smile at the adjudicator and the audience. I was fuming and all for taking her home, but my little girl was adamant that she wanted to do her character dance that afternoon. This incident knocked her confidence and enjoyment in dance for a good few months, and I wrote a stinking letter to the festival secretary, stating that I was not disputing the scores but i felt that the behaviour of the adjudicator was in contrast with the aims and objectives of the festival. I expected my child to receive some constructive criticism which was sensitive to her age group - along the lines of 'you remembered your dance really well, but it's really important to listen really well to your music and try to stay in time'
She is now 9 and still dancing, still enjoying her tap, still dancing at festivals, but refuses to enter a festival if that particular adjudicator is going to be there. I am proud of how my daughter handled herself that day.